I wouldn't just start bringing up the ces letter and the problems in it. And there is NO taking them off to wear a sleeveless shirt, cute sun dress or regular, girl-length shorts in the summer. I love my husband with my whole soul.
Might be worth working through the missionary lessons and CES letter to see if they can agree at least to disagree. Do you really want to wait two years to enjoy sex, fun, happiness, intimacy with someone.