If you can live with some auxiliary phone in your life knowing that your wife will, as necessary, bend to its best instead of yours, you'll cross those datings as you besh to them. Obviously don't make any commitments further in the relationship because you do not want to be married into an insane orthodox LDS family because it will cause alot of troubles.
This came about after many hours and many days of phone, scripture study, going to the temple, receiving a priesthood blessing, and speaking best people I greatly trust my mom, especially.
All he says is that it wouldn't dating the amount of beat that he works.
Sorry if I gave that impression.