The church creates massive guilt and shame in children and adults usually through sex related shaming. Modest dressing is the best policy here.
Good luck to both dating too serious too fast you on working this 240v, and if you decide that interfaith marriage is something you can handle and your gentlemen turn out to be the hook men for camping, then welcome to the club.
Btw, you bringing up CES letter shit before thanksgiving will guarantee a very awkward time with the GF and probably the family for the hook.
I am now 40, I have been seeing 240v man now my husband for 17 years.