Dating can be tricky, messy and wonderful all at the same time. Caring for another person means keeping their feelings in mind. Be now with yourself, and the rest will fall into place as it should.
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Some people think this is a way of breaking the news gently or "letting her down easy," but it's much better to deal with reality. Women who have fallen hard will hold youde any shred of hope and will not move on as long as you allow them to believe there is any.
Cut it off clean - it's the kindest cut of all. Always speak well of her to others, dsting not at all. Daging, or bad mouthing another person never leads to anything positive. If anyone asks, just tell them "It didn't work out. Hook up coordinator your email address to get a message when this question is answered.
Already answered Not a question Bad question Other. Tips Know that any feelings that come up for you or her are normal and healthy. You don't need to rescue her from her sadness.
Be clear and direct in your communication, while also being kind. Do have some compassion for the fact that her feelings may have been more extreme than yours, and allow for some upset. Don't take to long telling her that you don't love her otherwise that will just hurt her more.
Warnings Do not use the "I just don't want to be in a relationship" excuse unless it is the whole truth and nothing but the truth! Nothing hurts more than being lied to, and if you get a new daating a couple of months later, she'll know you were dishonest.
Do not attempt to console her by telling her she'll find someone someday. She very likely will, but as the person dumping her, there's no way you can say it without sounding condescending.
Be respectful and courteous even when you have to say "no" to romance. Meet Singles in your Area!
Step 2 Affirm your friendship. Step 3 Talk to the woman. Step 4 Be gentle, but firm. Tip Treat her the way you would want to be treated in a similar situation.
Warning Don't be mean or hurtful. References Imterested Art of Manliness: How to Handle the Silent Treatment.
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